Totally Grossed Out ....
I take Austin to school and pick him up when I'm off of work ... it makes him feel special, plus we get a little more time together in the mornings and afternoons. Tuesday Morning, We see my friend's husband dropping off his two girls, we wave and I drop Austin off at the doors ... Luke and I head home ... A few neighbors are outside, Luke and I go inside. Shortly after I get him set in his highchair, there is a knock on the door ... I figure its my neighbor Donna since we didn't trick-or-treat at her house the night before ... I answer the door, its my friend's husband ... he followed me home!!
Now folks ... this isn't the first time he's just shown up unannounced, so I didn't think a whole lot about it ... I thought it creepy but thought what the hey, let him in and chat for a bit ... Then the questions started ... was I still BFing Luke, how long ago did I quit ... was I seeing anyone special ....Did I know any non-crazy women that would flirt w/him ... would I flirt w/him ... I told him NO, I wasn't going to flirt w/him, he asks me why .... Well, I say, for starters, you are married to one of my best friends ... what, thats suposed to make it ok??? Hell, I think not ... He says, well, will you at leatst kiss me ... UMM NO ... again he asks why not ... UMM HELLO ... YOU ARE LAURA'S HUSBAND! He says ... well can I see your boobies ... UMM I don't think so ...
He did leave and asked me not to tell Laura ... I'm a little torn here ... this isnt' the first time he's approached one of her friends ... the last one did tell her and she was then deemed "crazy" ... do I take that chance and risk our friendship or just keep my mouth shut ... Nothing happened and nothing ever would happen ... I was the Maid of Honor at their wedding ...
She really doens't need a pig like him ....
posted by hyka's mess @ 1:45 PM
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That's a tough one. Do you risk a friendship and do her a favor or do you keep your mouth shut and just be there for her when it all falls apart? I wish that I had an answer for you. Do you think that you can confront him? Tell him to stop or you will have to do something about it, but then again he could go to his wife and say you were making passes at him. I think I would just clam up and wait and be there for her and never tell her that he did this to you, because it could bite you in the butt when she asks why you didn't tell her. And you can't talk bad about him because if they work things out then she won't want you around. Does any of this help? I know it's unsolicited advice.
Tell her. What she does with the info is her choice, but I would def. want to leave the ball in her court rather than his. Also he seems the type to NOT take a hint so telling his wife would be like a HUGE "get lost you sonofabitch!"
Just keep in mind that she may want to laugh it off (the whole denial thing) or who knows, it's her choice, but at least you were up front with her and in my opinion thats what friends do.
Sorry your in this situation and for the record..WHAT A SCUM BAG!!!!
Another friend suggested that IF I should happen to go over to their house again, to completely avoid him and make it very apparent that I don't want anything to do with him. So that she'll have to ask him whats up .... of course, I'd probably be deemed crazy as the last girl was too ... The other thing she said was to plan things with only her and the kids ...
That is a tough call. I think if I were Laura, I'd want to know. Your loyalty is to her and your friendship.
What a jerk for putting you in that spot!!!!
On an up note, you are THE hot mama!!!! :D
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