I'm SO upset!!

I am one of 3 girls ... I'm the oldest. We all have children in some way, shape or form, in other words we either gave birth to them or married into them, either way, we all have kids.

My youngest sister Lisa, has such a big heart, she'd do anything for anyone and make sure that no matter what she did you weren't upset with her. She raises her kids using the same method ... if they aren't mad at her, its all good. That being said... My niece has figured this out and is a complete, shall we say BITCH to anyone and everyone and completely walks all over my sister.

Just recently(within the last 2 months or so), My neice Abby (12 years old) has told my sister that JT (my sisters bf) has done some abusive things to her. My sister calls the police, JT is arrested and told he can not come around any of them. They go through tests and find that there are scrapings/marks inside of my neice which indicate that something had happened. My sister feels like her world is turned upside down, just at the thought that the man that she trusted w/her kids and loved so much could be accused of something like that just really hurt so very much. This accusation complety tore up their family. My nephew Alan(10) was upset, yelling at everyone that JT didn't do anything. My youngest neice Maddy (2) cried all the time cause she wanted her daddy. We were all upset but knew we needed to be there for them, no child or family should go through that kind of abuse and not have anyone to talk to about it.

Shortly after JT was accused, we were told that Abby would need counseling. Everyone was trying to figure out HOW this could happen and what actually happened. Abby insisted that she didn't want to talk about it. AND she insisted that she didn't want it to go to court, she was just happy that JT wasnt' at the house any longer.

As I indicated earlier, Lisa has her own way of raising her kids and JT is the "strong arm of the law" at the house. He's always the bad guy when it comes to getting onto the kids, though, he's much easier on the kids that I would be. Lisa was cleaning taking stuff upstairs and found Abby's diary left open and read that everything Abby had accused JT of was a lie and Abby went into great detail where she got all of her information to tell the police and Lisa to make it believeable. (internet, Lifetime channel etc) As for the scrapings, she inserted a tampon, but didn't remove the applicator, thus causing the scrapings. UNBELIEVEABLE!!!! That girl needs to read about the boy who cried wolf!! They turned the diary over to the authorities and charges are not being pursued at this time. (Abby ran away from school that day, cause she knew that Lisa would find the diary and that she'd be in deep doo doo when she got home, needless to say, she got suspended from school for a day for leaving school property without permission)

Lisa and JT are taking things slow, they're going through counseling as they were having some problems anyway. Abby is also going through counseling. (Don't think thats going to help) Abby is so into boys, its pathetic, she told Lisa that with JT gone, she can do what she wants when she wants and doesn't have to worry about getting into trouble, cause Lisa won't do it.

Fast forward to yesterday .... Abby and Alan are suposed to stay at home between the time Lisa leaves for work and someone gets there to stay with them, which in last nights case was JT. As soon as Lisa left the driveway at the back of the house, Abby hightailed it out the front door. Alan, trying to get his sister to come back home so that she (or he) didn't get into trouble followed her. They live on a one way street, but the next block over is Grand, a very busy main street. Alan got hit by a car. All he could tell the ambulance people was the street he lived on. They took him directly to the hospital to get checked out and then went door to door to try to find out which house was his. He couldn't remember phone numbers or house number nothing. JT was at the house when the police arrived at their door, Abby came in shortly thereafter (she had no fuckin clue). JT got things together, called my sister at work and went over to the hospital w/Alan. Abby didn't care one way or another that her brother was hurt. He's home, JT is staying with him today. He got clipped on the left side and drug a little bit down the road, He's very bruised and has a bad case of "Road Rash" I'm SOOOOO Mad at my niece... I'm ready to beat the crap out of her. She cares about nothing but herself!! I called and ordered Alan a basket of goodies, he's getting $25 worth of candy and crap all for him. My luck, he'll be the generous, thoughtful guy I know and love and share with his BITCH sister.......